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GIVE YOUR CHILD A
JUMP START
Your child may be experiencing some challenges in his/her life.
Poor self-esteem or lack of confidence handicap a young person, perhaps negatively
affecting their entire lives. Issues of "Emotional Intelligence,"
responsibility for one's choices, goal setting and implementation, are
crucial for teens and young adults. Becoming comfortable about ourselves,
confident in our abilities, and self-assured enough to joyfully explore our
options in the world ...these are priceless abilities for all of us, but
even more valuable to the young person facing so many serious decisions
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PRESSURE ON OUR KIDS CREATES
A LOT OF STRESS
Today, perhaps as never before, there is tremendous pressure on our children
to perform, to make decisions and commitments that have far reaching
consequences. The age of technology and information gathering has ensured
that everything we do, or don't do, is part of our "permanent record."
Youthful missteps, once chalked up to normal "growing pains." are now cause
for alarm because they follow you forever. Pressure to make decisions at a
very young age ... what sports and "hobbies" to pursue, what educational
path to follow, how to best prepare for acceptance at a good college; create
a lot of stress for students. Studies show many children in elementary
school are already experiencing high levels of stress about their futures,
and it only gets worse with each grade level. Some students cope by becoming
super achievers, but never really relax or feel good enough. Others cope by
emotionally "dropping out," not working up to their potential because they
feel overwhelmed by the demands they face. Most fall somewhere in the
middle, often feeling like they are on a treadmill with no way to get off.
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COLLEGE IS "MAKE IT OR BREAK
IT" TIME
College freshman react in any number of ways ... you made it, now you must
prove you can "cut it." Most do well, but many falter.
Every year more students seek counseling with
university counseling services.
Students who have developed destructive coping mechanisms earlier may find
they now get out of control; eating disorders, substance abuse, emotional
problems. Some never finish or get beyond the freshman year, but most do
fine. Many discover, years later, that the educational and career choices
they made so young were not right for them. They then face a crisis ... what
to do about it. Is it too late to make a change? What are the ramifications?
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GIVE YOUR STUDENT A
PROFESSIONAL SUPPORT SYSTEM
During this crucial time of self-discovery, decision-making, stress and peer
pressure, your child would very likely benefit from a relationship with a
professional coach ... a confidential, supportive, confidence-building
relationship. You supply a supportive environment and will do anything to
help your child, but you are "family," and unable to be totally
objective. Your student
will hesitate to confide everything to you, as all parents know!
Young people benefit greatly from a coaching
relationship because of the confidentiality, objective guidance and support, and mutual
accountability. The co-creative coaching relationship takes the pressure
off, the student is encouraged to discover his/her own inner guidance ...
the best way to achieve their individual success and personal happiness.
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Give your student the valuable gift of a professional coaching relationship.
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"Take the first step in faith. You
don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step"
Martin Luther King Jr. |
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